When raising their children, many parents either do what their own parents did, or just the opposite. What do you copy from your parents? What do you do that is different? Have you thought about why you copy some things and reject others? Even though your baby is only 6 months old, she is learning from your example. That is why it is so important to think about the examples and patterns you are setting, even at
an early age. Once set, patterns of family life are hard to change. Some patterns that influence your child’s life are: How you talk to each other How you work out problems How you show your feelings Talk to others with kindness and tell them what you really mean to say. Work out problems by talking about them and finding positive solutions. Show love and concern to family members, but also tell them when you are angry or upset so the issue can be solved and not buried. Remember, you are the most important influence in your children’s lives. How you act teaches them how to behave.

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