Parents used to think that the only way children could develop into responsible adults was through the rule that children should be seen and not heard. This rule does not really help families talk to one another. It’s never too early to start setting your family rules. For example, when you say, “Don’t touch the stove; it’s hot,” you are teaching a basic rule of safety. Now is a good time to decide what your family rules will be. Who will make the rules? How will your baby learn them?

In teaching your baby about what is allowed in your family, be honest about your feelings and say what you mean. For example, if he does something you don’t like, tell him not to do it any more and explain why. You will get your message across by being firm in your voice, in your manner, and in your actions. As your baby develops, he will learn what the limits are in your home, and it will be easier for all of you.

This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If we write him or her, we are talking about all babies. Every baby is different. Normal children may do things earlier or later than described in this FAQ. This FAQ describes typical children at each age. Each child is special and develops at his or her own pace.