Your baby is one of a kind! Babies may differ in these ways:
Rhythms- Some babies eat, sleep, even have bowel movements at around the same time each day. Others never do the same thing from one day to the next.
Approach or withdrawal- Some babies shy away from new things, while others seek
them out.
Adaptability- Some babies won’t take their formula if it isn’t the right temperature. Some babies can only sleep in their own cribs. Others do fine no matter where they are or with whom.
Intensity of reaction- Some babies whimper quietly when they’re cold or hungry. Others howl as soon as they are unhappy.
Level of responsiveness- Some babies notice the tiniest change around them. Others can sleep through thunderstorms. All of these things make up your baby’s temperament. Some combinations are easier to live with than others.
Easy babies are active and predictable. They adapt easily to change, and are usually
happy.
Slow to warm up babies pull away from new things a little, and adapt slowly to change.
Difficult babies tend to be unpredictable. They withdraw from new situations, adapt slowly to change, and react very slowly.
If your baby is difficult, know: Your baby is not difficult on purpose and is not bad. He can grow up to be as bright and loving as others. Your baby was born with this style of adapting, but it may change as he grows. A difficult baby needs more caring and more patient parents who will accept him and help him learn.
To help a difficult baby: Introduce things slowly, so he gets used to them. Pay attention to your baby’s signals, and adjust your plan to his temperament. Over time, you will find the right amount of stimulation to suit him. The style of adapting that makes your baby seem difficult at this age can help him be a great problem solver when he is older.