It is important to remember that each situation is different. One of the most important benchmarks is to look for a change in someone's usual functional abilities.
Take the following as an example: Suppose your neighbor has always kept a neat house. However, during your visits, you begin to see more disorganization, unpaid bills, dishes in the sink, etc. It would be important to determine the reason behind such a change. Is a disease such as arthritis preventing your neighbor from pushing a vacuum cleaner? Has there been a change in the routine for handling the mail? If so, why?
However, just because you notice a change, it may or may not be a concern. The real issue is personal safety and well-being. If the person is at risk, then a change is needed.
To see a list of questions that you might consider, visit www.extension.org/pages/Neighbors_Needing_Help.
