Released Aug. 16, 2007
PAOLA, Kan. - Family members are unique. Yet, when it comes to dividing up property, two or more children often will want the same keepsake, said Diane Burnett, Kansas State University Research and Extension agent in Miami County.
To spare the family from disagreements, Burnett suggests asking children (and any other potential heirs, such as siblings, nieces, nephews, special friends) to make a list of household or personal items they might like to have someday.
Parents - or grandparents, for that matter - can compare lists and decide who should receive specific items before making a list of any other items and their intended recipients.
"Sign and date the list before attaching it to your will," Burnett said.
Items that can cause the most friction may not be costly, she said. Adult children often want inexpensive household items that evoke fond memories -- holiday cookie cutters, a well-worn board game or the family´s popcorn bowl.
"Of course, giving away family keepsakes when you no longer need or want them can simplify the process of downsizing or disposing of household goods later," Burnett said. "Doing so also allows older adults to see family and friends enjoy items that were special to them, too."
More information about managing end-of-life decisions is available at any county or district K-State Research and Extension office.
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Contact: Mary Lou Peter-Blecha, mlpeter@ksu.edu
