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Playing With Your 3 Month Old Baby

Last Updated: September 26, 2008

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Parenting Tips for Your 3 Month Old Baby

How to Play

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Put your baby on the floor, in an infant seat or propped up enough to see you. Get your baby's attention by making eye contact and calling her name.

Show your baby a toy. Say, “Look what I have. It's a red rattle. Listen!” Then give the rattle to your baby. As she plays, talk about what she is doing. Say, “You can make it rattle. How does it taste? Is it hard? “

Allow your baby time to play and explore what she can do with the toy. When she is bored, show her how to do something else with the toy. If it is a rattle, show her how to move it up and down. Give her the rattle to try.

Another time, try this: Hold the rattle or toy and get your baby’s attention. Move it from one side to the other, up and down, and in circles. This helps your baby learn to use both eyes well. Your baby will let you know when she is tired of playing.

It is your job to match the amount of play to your baby's needs. If your baby wants to play some more, try playing another game. If your baby is fussy and tired, it's better to stop and play again later.

Why Play?

Playing helps babies learn. They learn how to tell the difference between objects by looking, feeling, tasting, smelling, and hearing.

Play encourages your baby to explore the world. He explores by using different body motions, such as banging, mouthing, dropping, and rubbing. He will do a combination of motions and compare the differences.

Playing with your baby shows him how to play when he is alone.


Learn more about Your 3 Month Old Baby from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.


Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

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