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When Toys Are Out of Sight, They Are Out of Mind

Last Updated: September 26, 2008

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Parenting Tips for Your 4 Month Old Baby


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Next time your baby is playing with something, watch to see if she looks for it when it is taken away. Probably not. At this age, if she can’t see it, she doesn’t remember that it exists. For your baby, out of sight is out of mind.

When your baby has a toy you want to take away from her, give her another toy before taking away the first one. Put it out of her sight. This is an easy way to redirect her attention.

Turn this into a game of peek-a-boo. Cover your face with your hands. Say, “Where’s Mommy?” Remove your hands from your face. Say, “Here I am!”

Cover your face with a piece of paper. Say, “I can’t see ____ (name of your baby).” Look over the paper. Look under the paper. Look out either side of the paper. Say, “I see ____ (name of your baby). Watch to see if she looks for your face.


Learn more about Your 4 Month Old Baby from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.


Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

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