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Last Updated: September 26, 2008

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Parenting Tips for Your 8 Month Old Baby

Parents used to think that the only way children could develop into responsible adults was through the rule that children should be seen and not heard. This rule does not really help families talk to one another.

Even though your baby is only 8 months old, it’s not too early to start setting your family rules. For example, when you say, “Don’t touch the stove; it’s hot,” you are teaching a basic rule of safety.

Now is a good time to decide:

  • What your family rules will be
  • Who will make the rules
  • How your baby will learn them

In teaching your baby about what is allowed in your family, be honest about your feelings and say what you mean. For example, if he does something you don’t like, tell him not to do it any more and explain why.

You will get your message across by being firm in your voice, in your manner, and in your actions. As your baby develops, he will learn what the limits are in your home, and it will be easier for all of you.


Learn more about Your 8 Month Old Baby from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.
Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

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