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Couples Can Create “I Love You” Rituals

Last Updated: September 14, 2009

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Parenting Tips for Your 47-48 Month Old Child

Special “I love you” rituals repeated each day could help you feel connected to your partner. Taking a few minutes to create a feeling of togetherness can pay big dividends. You not only get the warm feelings, but also often get more energy and cooperation to take on some of the other items on your “to do” list.

As you create your own rituals, keep in mind they need to be meaningful and repeated. Here are some ideas to start with:

  • A special way of saying goodbye like a kiss and “I love you”.
  • A few minutes for couple talk before dinner each day.
  • A phone call, just before you leave for home for the day, to say you have missed your partner.
  • Snuggle together at bedtime for a few minutes.
  • Do dishes together after a meal.


Learn more about Your Child: 47-48 Months from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.


Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

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