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If Your Child Misbehaves, Ask Yourself if He Understands the Rules

Last Updated: September 14, 2009

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Parenting Tips for Your 41-42 Month Old Child

Before deciding your child has misbehaved, ask yourself:

  • Is the child aware of the rule? For example, does he know he can only eat food at the table? Is he aware a rule has been broken? Sometimes a gentle reminder is enough. “Remember, Andy, sit at the table when you eat.”
  • Is he so involved in an interesting activity he does not hear your request? Is he reading a book or watching a favorite television show?
  • Is your child mature enough to follow the rule?
  • Has your child forgotten the rule?
  • Is he having a bad day?
  • Why is the child misbehaving? Children misbehave for a variety of reasons. They may be trying to get attention, feel sick, or stressed out.


Learn more about Your Child: 41-42 Months from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.


Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

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