Parenting Tips for Your 37-38 Month Old Child
Parents want their children to grow up to be responsible and trustworthy. They want their children to do the right thing, even when they are not watching. Here are some guidance techniques:
- Set fair rules and reasonable limits. It helps children feel secure. It also teaches them what is expected. Children become confused and may misbehave when limits are not consistent or rules are not clear.
- Give clear and positive instructions. Make sure your child hears you. Instead of yelling your request from the kitchen, go to where your child is and say what you want done. You may need to show him how to do the task and help him with it for a while.
- Keep in mind that your child wants to please you. If you ask your child to pick up his toys, let him do it. If you re-do his work, he will learn that he cannot do it right and might not even try later on. Help him break the job down into steps. Show him how to put the puzzles on the shelves and blocks in the box. Try to make it fun and encourage his efforts.
- Let your child help you set rules and consequences for breaking the rules. For example, “The rule is you may ride your tricycle on the driveway. If you ride in the flowers you will lose your driver’s license until tomorrow.” If your child breaks the rule, put the tricycle away and say, “I see you made your choice. Tomorrow you can ride your tricycle on the driveway”.
- Say what you mean and mean what you say. For example, tell your child that bedtime is in ten minutes, rather than asking if your child is ready for bed. Do not give choices if there are not any.
Learn more about Your Child: 37-38 Months from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.
