Parenting Tips for Your 31-32 Month Old Toddler
Sometimes it is easier to understand and guide toddlers if we try to see the world as they see it. Most of us don’t remember what it was like to be a toddler, so we have to use our imaginations.
Suppose Susie runs up to you happily to show you that she has learned to take the arms off her doll. Do you think first of the armless doll or do you see the world through Susie’s eyes? Can you share her excitement about discovering how dolls are made? Later you can talk about how her other dolls need their arms.
Jimmy has just learned he can hit two pans together and make a beautiful, loud noise. Is your first thought to stop the terrible noise or to smile at his new discovery? He has learned something important! Later you can help him find a safe place in the yard to make noise or close the door to his room if the noise bothers you.
Susie and Jimmy love to learn. Encourage this learning now. Repairing the doll and quieting the banging can come later. It is not always easy to set aside your own feelings to appreciate your toddler’s achievements, but try it. You may find it makes life with your child richer and more fun for both of you.
