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Criticizing Accidents Can Make Toilet Training Last Longer

Last Updated: September 14, 2009

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Parenting Tips for Your 27-28 Month Old Toddler

Learning to use the toilet is a big step for both parents and toddlers. Most toddlers learn to use the toilet between 2 and 3 years of age. At first toddlers use the toilet inconsistently during the day, and still need to wear diapers. As they get better at recognizing what it feels like to have to go to the toilet, they will start to stay dry during the day. But they will still need diapers at night.

It is common for toilet training to have ups and downs. Some days your toddler will be very good at knowing he needs to go. Other days, your toddler may have several accidents. Let him learn at his own pace.

What can parents do to toilet train their child?

  • Wait until your toddler is ready. Look for signs like being uncomfortable in a wet or dirty diaper.
  • Avoid forcing your toddler to use the toilet or criticizing accidents. When a toddler feels pressured or embarrassed, it can take longer to toilet train him.
  • Show your toddler where the toilet is and how to get there.
  • Practice getting on and off the toilet. Let your toddler sit on the toilet when he is interested, even if he doesn’t go.
  • Encourage your toddler to tell you when he is wet or dirty.
  • When you change his diaper tell him why. “We have to change you because you made your diaper wet.”
  • Dress your toddler in loose-fitting clothes to pull off easily.
  • Be patient. Praise your toddler for each step: telling you it is time to go, sitting on potty, etc.


Learn more about Your Toddler: 27-28 Months from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.


Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

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