Parenting Tips for Your 27-28 Month Old Toddler
Toddlers naturally show you and tell you that they love you. Welcome and enjoy these feelings. You’ll want to show your affection toward your toddler too, with words and hugs.
But toddlers also, just as naturally, sometimes say and show that they dislike you. Parents understandably find these angry words and actions hard to accept. It is much nicer to hear “I love you” than “I hate you,” but both kinds of feelings are common with toddlers. These expressions of negative feelings are part of growing up. We all feel angry at times.
- Try to handle these actions and feelings with understanding instead of argument or punishment. These words and actions don’t mean you have been a bad parent or that your toddler truly dislikes you.
- Understand that your toddler’s anger is normal and it will pass. Show your child that you care for him even when he is angry, and that angry feelings are OK. Say, “I know you’re mad right now. It’s OK to tell me you feel angry.”
- Firmly prevent him from turning his feelings into angry actions, such as biting, kicking, and hitting.
- Do not give in to his unreasonable demands just to prevent angry outbursts. Talk to him when he’s calmer and find out what is making him feel angry or mad.
- Be patient; the good and loving relationship you have with your toddler will keep angry times short.
Learn more about Your Toddler: 27-28 Months from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.
