These resources are brought to you by the Cooperative Extension System and your Local Institution

Parenting Home

Praise Children When They Help You Around the House

Last Updated: September 14, 2009

View as web page


Parenting Tips for Your 17-18 Month Old Toddler

Sweeping.jpg


Children learn best when parents are willing to share simple tasks with them like cooking, cleaning, and other household jobs. When your child tries to help you, remember to look for ways you can make helping fun for both of you. That way, your child will enjoy helping and will want to help more.

Children can learn how to pour milk from a small pitcher by watching you. They can learn how to sweep the floor, pick flowers, and hang up clothes. Toddlers spend up to 20 percent of their time just watching, listening, and staring at you. They’re learning how to copy the things you do.

When you let your little person help you, you are giving him a chance to practice what he has learned. He will make mistakes of course, but don’t yell at him for these. Instead say, “That was a good try. Maybe it would work better if you did it this way.”

Take the time to help him succeed now, and later he will be able to do more things for himself and for you. This is time well spent for both of you.


Learn more about Your Toddler: 17-18 Months from Just In Time Parenting. You can also go to our Resource Links for additional information on child care and development.


Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

Browse related Articles by tag: parenting, parenting enewsletters, 17-18 month old child


Have a specific question? Try asking one of our Experts

Unlike most other resources on the web, we have experts from Universities around the country ready to answer your questions.


View this page: