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Your Toddler: 17-18 Months

Last Updated: September 14, 2009

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Use Emotion Words Like Happy, Sad, and Afraid to Describe the Way Your Child Feels

Parenting Tips for Your 17-18 Month Old Toddler

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You have probably noticed by now that your little one can show intense feelings. You may have seen him become suddenly very excited, frustrated, happy, angry, or afraid. You can help him understand his feelings by giving each feeling a name.

When a box won’t open or a car won’t roll, your little one may drop it or throw it in anger. Hold him and say calmly that you know it makes him angry when the toy won’t work. These words show your toddler that you understand his anger. It also gives him a word that helps him understand his feelings.

Show him how the toy works, substitute another toy, or just hold him gently. He will know you care about his feelings, and he will begin to learn to handle them. It takes many years for a child to understand and cope with his feelings. The help you give him now will make this learning easier.

Here are some feeling words:

  • Happy or glad
  • Sad or unhappy
  • Scared or afraid
  • Angry or mad
  • Silly
  • Excited
  • Proud

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Note to Parents: When reading this newsletter, remember: Every baby is different. Children may do things earlier or later than described here. This newsletter gives equal space and time to both sexes. If he or she is used, we are talking about all babies.
References: These materials were adapted by authors from Extension Just in Time Parenting Newsletters in California, Delaware, Georgia, Iowa, Kentucky, Maine, Tennessee, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Wisconsin.

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