Though a living will may go by different names in different states, its purpose is the same - to allow an individual to document his or her wishes about end-of-life care.
As a caregiver, you may find yourself in a situation where you need to take the initiative and have the discussion with family members or loved ones who have not shared their end-of-life wishes with you. Ideally, these decisions should be made as soon as possible, allowing the greatest possible involvement by the person for whom you are caring.
Keep in mind that you have initiated this conversation because you care about your loved one’s well-being, especially during difficult times. Allow your loved one to set the pace and steer the conversation. Be sure to make an effort to hear and understand what the person is saying.
These conversations, although difficult, are important and special to both of you. They are needed to learn about your loved one’s wishes so those wishes can be honored.
For more information, visit: http://www.extension.org/pages/Living_Wills
